Friday, August 22, 2008

Helpful Orgasm Tips and Tricks for Women by Hannah Bennette

Helpful Orgasm Tips and Tricks for Women by Hannah Bennette


Orgasms!! We all want them and some of us could use a little help. Here are some tips and tricks that can be used to enhance your personal pleasure.
One of the more obvious options is a vibrator. Vibrators take out some of the manual work so you can focus on and enjoy the new sensations. Vibrators give the user the ability to control their own sexual experience, and with a variety of different sizes and options available, it really opens up a broad range of pleasure opportunities. There are websites out there to help you find what you are looking for.


A dildo can also be very beneficial for a woman. Dildos are great because they allow penetration while still allowing for clitoral masturbation. This is a great combo because it allows the woman the ability to access her g-spot and her clitoris.
Another option that is pretty readily available is water. In the shower, bath, hot-tubs or pools even, water can help woman achieve a great orgasm. One way is lying on your back in the tub with your legs spread underneath the running faucet. Allow the water to gently glide over your clitoris. Play with water pressure, body pulsation, and water temperature level. Getting a shower head with variable water options can come in very handy. In a Jacuzzi tub, hot tub or pool, simply finding a jet a gently allowing the water to stream over your clit and in between your legs also provides a very great pleasure source.


Ultimately, experimentation is key to discovering exactly how to achieve the perfect "o". Not all orgasms are created equally for all women. Knowing your own body is essential for great sex both with and without a partner.
For more information on vibrators, visit www.verygoodvibrations.com or if you know what you are looking for, these few sex-toy sites may be useful:

Too Timid

Babeland


About the Author
Hannah Bennette is a sex enthusiast who maintains sexual health websites and writes sexual health articles.

Using Sex-Toys in the Bedroom by Hannah Bennette

Using Sex-Toys in the Bedroom by Hannah Bennette

Recently, an Australian sex survey revealed that un-attached women have much great success achieving an orgasm than those who have a sex partner. The study showed 56% of women who had no lover could achieve an orgasm through self-pleasure and masturbation as opposed to 24% of women who had sex-partners. Sexologists believe this may be due to the fact that masturbation truly allows a woman to connect with themselves through self-love and vibrators provide a wide range of stimulation and satisfaction. By incorporating vibrators into a couple’s regular sexual practice, the woman is more likely to achieve orgasm. Using a vibrator to help a partner achieve orgasm is good for both. Each partner has the satisfaction of knowing that their partner was indeed satisfied. And vibrators or masturbators can be used by both men and women. Many people feel that using a vibrator is not normal. and that people should be able to achieve orgasm through sexual intercourse alone. This is not necessarily the case. In fact, there are many different sex-toys people can incorporate in the bedroom. Sex will become more exciting, playful, and intriguing. It will not remain monotonous and the more diverse the sexual experience, the more willing people will be to explore and experiment.
So, if you are interested in a truly mutually satisfied sex-life with your partner, denounce the old-fashion belief that only sexual intercourse is the way to achieve orgasm and start making your sex life better today! The links below may prove helpful:

Very Good Vibrations

Too Timid

Babeland


New Female Hot-Spots: The U-Spot and AFE

Due to recent medical advancements and scientific investigation, there have been newly discovered female pleasure areas.
One is called the U-Spot. It is located just above and on both sides of the urethral opening and is made of highly sensitive erectile tissue. It is not the urethral opening, but is rather on both sides of it. Researchers learned that this area when stimulated, whether it be with the tongue, head of a penis, finger, or even a caress, proved highly erotic.


Another recently discovered zone for women is The Anterior Fornix (aka A-Spot, T-Spot, or AFE). This area was recently discovered to reside at the innermost point of the vagina, just above the cervix, or the part of the uterus that extends into the vagina slightly. This is called the anterior fornix and is the slightly depressed circular area left from the slight extension of the uterus. Research has shown that the vagina can lubricate very quickly from pressure on this area.


Direct stimulation of the AFE zone can cause immediate contractions that are only found in orgasm. When the AFE zone is stimulated, the nerves that carry information from your genitals to your brain are highly aroused. This creates engorgement of the sexual areas and enhances sexual arousal. This also proves true for women who have low or no sexual responsiveness. The easiest way to locate this zone is to slide fingers about halfway up and find an area larger than the g-spot and slightly rougher than the normal vaginal wall. Some vibrators have recently been created specifically for stimulation of this zone. For information or to purchase vibrators visit these sites:


Very Good Vibrations

Too Timid

Pleasure and Fun

Babeland

Dirty Little Secrets

Certain sexual positions can enhance the ability to arouse the AFE zone such as advanced missionary, with the woman’s legs drawn up near her breasts and the man suspending himself while holding her legs apart. This position, regardless of penile size, will provide complete penetration and will stimulate the AFE zone.
Hannah Bennette is a sex enthusiast who maintains sexual health websites and writes sexual health articles. For more information, visit
Very Good Vibrations

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Vibrator Guide for Men

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Vibrator Guide for Men by Iris Emery


Looking for someone else? One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever bought them the biggest vibrator or dildo that they had ever seen. And while the common thought is that bigger is better, this isn’t always the case for every woman.
Some women aren’t designed for that kind of load capacity, so you’re going to need to think a little more compact, perhaps. Shoving something big into something that is small isn’t pleasurable in the least bit. And the sad part is that a lot of the women won’t even say anything because they don’t want to offend your choice. Why make these poor ladies suffer? Be sensible about size unless you know she can take it! For some os us, bigger is indeed better... Look at yourself. Yes, unzip your pants and look at what your woman is already accustomed to feeling inside her. Be honest, this isn’t the time to start bragging about the size, length, whatever, no one is looking but you. That’s the size that you want to choose for a vibrator for your woman. Slightly bigger is okay too, but don’t go for the foot in diameter version. Her eyes may widen when she sees it, but that’s in fear, not anticipation. Looking for yourself?
A penis pump can be a great way to stimulate yourself when you’re flying solo for a while, but you have to give this purchase a little thought as well. A lot of these pumps are not designed for all sizes of men. You want to read the package carefully to see what the design is. Sometimes there is a cup at the end of the penis pump that will catch your juices as well as stimulate the tip of the penis. Be a little wary of the texture that a pump has - it can be irritating if the material sticks to places where it just shouldn’t stick. So use LOTS of lube! Does that still seem stimulating? The lashings of lube sensation can be very different if you haven’t tried it… If you’re here online, you’ll want to read the reviews on the site. These folks aren’t paid to give their opinions, so you’re sure to read the truth. And if you’re still not sure about the product, ask!
The touch, the feel of vibrators
When it comes to vibrators, the material can make all of the difference. It can be smooth or textured in the same way as a real penis. There are also others that come with special textures and grooves for her ultimate pleasure. These are supposed to hit the g-spot and though each woman is different, they can help in other ways. If you end up buying a vibrator, a little lube can help here as well.
The extras that matter
Oh, and I almost forgot— why not find a vibrator that’s waterproof and has a lot of speed settings. Waterproof comes in handy because it can be used in pools and bathtubs. And who wouldn’t like a little pick me up in the morning shower? Or for the ultimate private experience, use the (waterproof models only!) vibrator in the tub—it’s ultra quiet and discreet. Speed settings help to control the pleasure of the experience, plus the vibrator can then be used on the clitoris as well. With a little lube and a good vibrator, the woman can feel waves of orgasms—repeated over and over. Yes, multiple orgasms are possible—especially with a good vibrator. And when the man has picked out a great vibrator for himself or for his partner, they’re going to be thanked in very special ways.

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Vibrator Guide for Men

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Vibrator Guide for MenBy Iris Emery


Looking for someone else? One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever bought them the biggest vibrator or dildo that they had ever seen. And while the common thought is that bigger is better, this isn’t always the case for every woman.
Some women aren’t designed for that kind of load capacity, so you’re going to need to think a little more compact, perhaps. Shoving something big into something that is small isn’t pleasurable in the least bit. And the sad part is that a lot of the women won’t even say anything because they don’t want to offend your choice. Why make these poor ladies suffer? Be sensible about size unless you know she can take it! For some os us, bigger is indeed better... Look at yourself. Yes, unzip your pants and look at what your woman is already accustomed to feeling inside her. Be honest, this isn’t the time to start bragging about the size, length, whatever, no one is looking but you. That’s the size that you want to choose for a vibrator for your woman. Slightly bigger is okay too, but don’t go for the foot in diameter version. Her eyes may widen when she sees it, but that’s in fear, not anticipation. Looking for yourself?
A penis pump can be a great way to stimulate yourself when you’re flying solo for a while, but you have to give this purchase a little thought as well. A lot of these pumps are not designed for all sizes of men. You want to read the package carefully to see what the design is. Sometimes there is a cup at the end of the penis pump that will catch your juices as well as stimulate the tip of the penis. Be a little wary of the texture that a pump has - it can be irritating if the material sticks to places where it just shouldn’t stick. So use LOTS of lube! Does that still seem stimulating? The lashings of lube sensation can be very different if you haven’t tried it… If you’re here online, you’ll want to read the reviews on the site. These folks aren’t paid to give their opinions, so you’re sure to read the truth. And if you’re still not sure about the product, ask!
The touch, the feel of vibrators
When it comes to vibrators, the material can make all of the difference. It can be smooth or textured in the same way as a real penis. There are also others that come with special textures and grooves for her ultimate pleasure. These are supposed to hit the g-spot and though each woman is different, they can help in other ways. If you end up buying a vibrator, a little lube can help here as well.
The extras that matter
Oh, and I almost forgot— why not find a vibrator that’s waterproof and has a lot of speed settings. Waterproof comes in handy because it can be used in pools and bathtubs. And who wouldn’t like a little pick me up in the morning shower? Or for the ultimate private experience, use the (waterproof models only!) vibrator in the tub—it’s ultra quiet and discreet. Speed settings help to control the pleasure of the experience, plus the vibrator can then be used on the clitoris as well. With a little lube and a good vibrator, the woman can feel waves of orgasms—repeated over and over. Yes, multiple orgasms are possible—especially with a good vibrator. And when the man has picked out a great vibrator for himself or for his partner, they’re going to be thanked in very special ways.

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5 of the Best Sex Toys for New Lovers

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5 of the Best Sex Toys for New LoversBy Iris Emery


If you are new lovers, introducing sex toys can be as uncomfortable as meeting her parents for the first time. What should you get? How should you introduce them? How to broach the subject? Here is a list of the top most popular sex toys for new lovers-simple enough to provide pleasure, unobtrusive enough to not scare her off.
The least intense introductory sex toy is not actually a toy at all, but a great way to approach the subject none the less. Massage lotions and personal lubricants, along with low lights, candles, and a romantic song on the CD player can open the door for more adventurous play later. Many of these are aromatherapy driven, and as everyone knows, smell is the strongest and most sensual of the senses. The addition of liquid pheromones can heighten erotic sensations for the both of you.
If all goes well, the next step up is couples sex play board games. These typically consist of card games that resemble the old "spin the bottle" ploy used on you as a teenager, but some are more intricate, containing items such as furry cuffs and light bondage equipment. If this is still a little too much, you can get something as simple as sexy dice which have suggestions for sexual positions, etc on them instead of numbers.
Next up is a variety of dildos and vibrators. She may have plenty of experience with vibrators, but hasn't experienced the pleasure of you using one with her. Keep introductory vibrators and dildos simple, if you pull one out that resembles a sea urchin you will probably have her running for the next bus. Stay away from butt plugs and harnesses for now, but anal beads might be okay.
If you've gotten through the first stages and are ready to move on to more adventurous sex toys, you may want to try some bondage. Please read up on it first, as it is easy to accidentally hurt each other if you are unfamiliar with the equipment or the use of safety words. Simple restraints may be enough, but you might want to try nipple clamps, spanking, or just get a beginner's fantasy kit, which includes a little of everything for the budding bondage enthusiast.
And finally, you may very well just get to the place where the two of you want to get really kinky. For this, you can purchase outrageous plastic cocks and huge fake fists. Or maybe you'd be interested in double-headed dildos for insertion into both her vagina and anus. You can even get ones that insert one end into his anus and the other into her vagina. Advanced BDSM collections include handcuffs, masks, and suspension gear.
Please remember that it is necessary to take proper care of all sex toys, making sure they are cleaned soon after each use and kept in a place where they will not become contaminated.
For more information about lingerie please have a look at this link:Cheap Trashy Lingerie Exotic Lingerie
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Sunday, August 17, 2008

Quick Self-Pleasure Tips

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Quick Self-Pleasure TipsBy Holly Franklin

The use of other aids can help a women gain even more pleasure from a little self-pleasure alone time or with a partner. There are many different tools and techniques that can enhance the pleasure all-round. There is the obvious and also some tips that require a little more dexterity.
1. Vibrators can be big help as they will allow you lessen some of the manual labour involved so that you can concentrate more on the enjoyment. The use of a vibrator can provide precise, powerful physical stimulation to the clitoris and gives the user a lot of command over the excitement.
2. Water can really help self-pleasure and assist a women learn more about herself. A good tip is to lie back with your legs spread in a bath with a shower hose and then directing the stream of water gently on to your clitoris. Start slowly and then play with the pressure, then pulsation and finally the warmth. If you don’t have a shower a trickier but possible method is to slide your bum over the drain so that your legs are up in the air and the genitals under the tap or a little bit easier use Jacuzzi jets if you have them.
3. Why not try rubbing against a something perhaps. You may use a soft pillow, a piece of furniture or a dildo.
4. Speaking of dildos they really benefit a girl when she is self-pleasuring because they can be a delightful complement to clitoral masturbation because they offer the completeness of penetration but can also be used to incite the G-Spot.
Life is all about experimentation and discovering more about whom you are and why stop when it comes to exploring your own body. Have fun and why not get a vibrator. One survey in a glossy magazine stated that 25% of all professional women between 25-34 years of age carry a vibrator in their bag at all times.
The body of a woman is a complicated thing. A woman has many erogenous zones and the only way to discover them all is with experimentation. Ladies an orgasm happens between the ears and not the legs. It is up to every girl individually to understand her own body. If she cannot then how can she expect her partner to when it comes to love making. If a woman wants satisfaction then experimentation through self pleasure is the only way for her to ever truly find the ultimate climax.

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